Just because you love anal sex and anal stimulation, doesn't mean you and your body are completely relaxed. Often it is during the initial penetration that you are extra sensitive. An anal relaxer can therefore be a good addition to help you relax during intercourse so that you can focus more on the pleasure you get from anal sex. These products provide a light numbing effect during anal sex without taking away the pleasant feeling. But also keep in mind that it is important to listen to your body's signals.